Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Wicked love

I watched the movie “ wicked love” with my cousin and her friend. It was about a man who broke off his engagement with his girlfriend of ten years for another woman. Although she cried her eyes and heart out, she accepted the break up against her mother’s advice to fight to keep her man. She had resolved that, if indeed he had been her’s to keep; she wouldn’t have to fight to keep him.

This sparked a discussion on the whole concept of fighting to keep your man. Should a woman fight for a man who no longer wants to be with her?

One may argue that depending on the circumstances, a girl may have to consider rolling her sleeves and taking a stance for a show down. Though I am no expert, I have been around long enough to learn that; if a man doesn’t love you, he doesn’t love you. You have no business keeping him at your side against his will.

Be smart enough to hold on and brave enough to walk away, you may never get over it, but you will get to the point where it doesn’t bother you as much.


  1. I agree. You can't fight to keep a man who doesn't want to stay. I remember reading a quote that said, "if you fall in love w/ two people, stay with the second person because if you loved the first person enough, you wouldn't have strayed." something like that. But to fight to keep someone? especially knowing there are millions of men out there probably better? I'd walk away. It'll hurt, but in the long run, the individual will be stronger.

    sorry for rambling. lol.

    1. I couldn't agree more, plus as the saying goes "you don't know what you are missing until it arrives"